Psychology
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Inferred, Suggested, insinuated…

I’m about to say some controversial things, they may upset, they may annoy, but I do this. Read it with an open mind, then decide. As ever, I am not an expert and I’m willing to be dead wrong… All advertisements are basically a load of bollocks, and because of them, and other tv shows… Continue reading
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What is pleasing and what is not.

The altruistic act is oft misunderstood, as misunderstood as the self-regarding act. Most acts are arguably self-regarding, and it is important to bear in mind that if they seem, on quick inspection, to be for others, they may be ultimately be for the self. In fact I would go as far as to say that… Continue reading
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What to say today?

Often I have no idea what I am going to write, I just sit down and a rant falls out of my fingers. Let’s face it, that’s what my post are usually about, something that’s been weighing on my mind, something that irks me. Today though I watched an episode of Luther (UK Tv Drama,… Continue reading
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She is angry!

My partner has had enough, she’s irate with anger, seething, incandescent with rage, over an advert for a Nike sports bra where the item is being reviewed by a so-called transgender person. I say so-called because I won’t allow such a thing to be considered a truth on my personal blog, as far as I… Continue reading
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Misogyny in the forces

Misogyny, as a result of genetic imbalance, is not misogyny. It is not possible that evolution, making one species and the genders it contains differently structured for differing advantages, could contain a will for the traits that worked out to be most useful to be lesser in one than the other since evolution has no… Continue reading
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Speaking so as NOT to be understood

If we reckon that the goal of good communication is to be understood by those we are communicating with, then what could possibly be the goal of bad communication? In this piece I will refer to the person giving information as the communicator, and the person getting as the receiver, if that makes it seem… Continue reading
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Control the Narrative

What the powerful have always wanted is to control the narrative of their lives, to create an image of themselves in other peoples eyes, this has been very important to them for a long time. We can see this motivation played out in history when thinking of the Roman Emperors (Domitian became a hero to… Continue reading
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How did you expect them to be?

This is a possible explanation, not an excuse, nor a mitigation of wrongdoing.. The problem is this…. Given what we know of people who do harsh things as a living or a vocation, the human deprivation they witness, the suffering, the injustice, the loss and pointlessness and hopelessness ordinary people just walking through their daily… Continue reading
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Praising a Facade

I’m about to appear like a terrible person but hey ho, they’re just thoughts, I do not rule the world. When a person posts a picture of themselves on a social media site that does not accurately represent the physical specimen that they actually are is bad enough, it’s a con, bullshit. I’ve referred to… Continue reading
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The non-Human

I watch Love Island, before you judge that fact bear with me a while and I will explain…. Jean Baudrillard speculated that in modernity there was little reality since every experience can be replicated and shared. That we live in a simulated world where life, daily life, is a series of constructed events where the… Continue reading