Life
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Sports fans, a paradox

I like sports, nearly all of them. the spectacle of competition and the excitement of it all. I watch major stuff, like the world cup or the Olympics, as most do. I think however that I might have spotted some problems with these events. I have no intention of criticising the sports themselves, instead I… Continue reading
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The joy of therapy

I’m in therapy, I’ve got a problem and I’m getting help to solve it. I would recommend this to anyone who asked me, whether they need it or think they don’t. What it is is not what you think. I decided to approach it very open mindedly and without prejudice, I wanted to know more… Continue reading
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Being mindful

I once did a meditation in Birmingham at a yoga class, it wasn’t really my thing before that but I enjoyed this one tremendously. We all sat in a circle and considered a flame, it’s flickering light captivating everyone in the room. I normally have an active mind that never rests, but this time it… Continue reading
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Avoiding the Ms

I know a man who has visited the sexual health clinic more than once, he had Chlamydia twice at least. He told me that on both occasions the girl he slept with to get it had a first name beginning with the letter M. “So stay away from girls whose first name begins with M”… Continue reading
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Ruined or always going to be that way?

When I got him he was quiet, I say got him because he was something that I had to accept as part of the package, I loved his mother you see. Of course he became much more than that to me in time. A quiet young man with little to say for himself, his gran… Continue reading
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Dreams

I never remember in the morning what they contained, the details. I only know how, upon waking up, they made me feel. Now that I was having good days for a change I wondered why I was repeatedly feeling dread and a sense of loss immediately after I woke. This feeling stayed with me throughout… Continue reading
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Dissecting greatness

There is to be found an abundance of proficiency in the practice of carrying out tasks such as potting a snooker ball. There is no shortage of players who can do this, and do it very well. What then is there to separate any of these persons, why then are there so few professionals that… Continue reading
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Impoverishment and ire

You work your life, you do it because a somebody or a group of somebodies make the decision that you can create value on their behalf and they are willing to give you tokens that you can then exchange for those items that you need and those things that you desire. Simply, this is the… Continue reading
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The diary of an unremarkable man

Every now and then I find myself falling victim to an acute case of melancholy. I am, of course as most are, a quite reflective soul, given to assessing my life and summarising it up to this point; trying to find a reason to believe, and maybe we all need to, that I am valid,… Continue reading
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The others confusion effect

I have a theory and it goes a little something like this….. People mostly think that they have an authentic self – this is a challengeable concept though. We can first ask as to where we find this authentic person? Is it in their own head space, the mind self, or is it in reality,… Continue reading